Choosing a Career over Love

The choice between having a career or making time for love is an extremely personal and individualdecision. There are many factors which can affect your choice, and there are many people whohave discovered how to achieve a healthy work life balance that allows them to have both. Careers and love fulfill us in different but important ways. Having a solid career gives us a sense ofaccomplishment and self worth, aside from the practicalities of paying the bills. Many peopledevelop their entire identity based upon what they do, elevating their career to a level of greatimportance in their lives. Then there Continue reading Choosing a Career over Love

জীবনসঙ্গীর মধ্যে যেসব গুণ থাকা প্রয়োজন

ভালোবাসা এমন একটি আবেগ যা হঠাৎ করেই মনে চলে আসে। কিছু জিনিস বুঝে উঠার আগেই একজন আরেকজনকে ভালোবেসে ফেলেন। কিন্তু পরে ধীরে ধীরে যখন বোঝার চেষ্টা করেন তখন অনেক কিছুই বিচার বিশ্লেষণের সময় চলে আসে। তখন দুটি বিষয় ঘটে। প্রথমত, ভালোবাসা আরও বেড়ে যায়। কিংবা দ্বিতীয়ত মনের টান কিছুটা কমে আসে। তাই ভালোবাসা অটুট রাখতে এমন জীবনসঙ্গী বেছে নিন যার মধ্যে কিছু ভাল গুন থাকা একান্ত দরকার-   আপনি আপনার সঙ্গীর প্রতি দুর্নিবার আকর্ষণ বোধ করেন আপনারা যদি একে অপরের জন্য একেবারে পারফেক্ট হয়ে থাকেন তবে আপনারা নিজেদের মধ্যে একপ্রকার অদ্ভুত আকর্ষণ বোধ করবেন। এই আকর্ষণ কখনোই কমবে না। বরং Continue reading জীবনসঙ্গীর মধ্যে যেসব গুণ থাকা প্রয়োজন

Arranged Marriage vs Love Marriage in India

The arranged marriage vs love marriage debate is one that will may never be resolved. In the past, almost all marriages were arranged however in these modern times, many are opting to break from tradition and instead pursue a love marriage. I am not going to claim that one is better than the other, rather I am going to explore the advantages and disadvantages of both. Arranged Marriage vs Love MarriageIn an arranged marriage, the bride and groom are usually selected by their parents, rather than by each other. This is not to be confused with forced marriages where by Continue reading Arranged Marriage vs Love Marriage in India

Marriage therapy – episode 01

WORKING WITH A trained marriage therapist or counselor offers you and your partner a lifeline, not just in times of crisis, but also as a preventive measure to ensure your long-term marital success. When smart couples find their once brilliant love is tarnished, they recog- nize that a few sessions of focused marriage therapy can help restore it to its former glory. Successful in life, such couples know that fine- tuning their relationship pays enormous dividends. If there are chil- dren, these partners take their commitment to make the marriage work to an even higher level, and use therapy to Continue reading Marriage therapy – episode 01

Top ten things you can do to make your marriage work

marry your best friend hibernate during the first year of marriage to cement your relationship agree on joint financial goals, review these regularly, share career development each other and make plan together. Keep up to date each other, flexible to each other have a weekly check-in to discuss your issues( share daily life problems , and find way together to overcome it. ) Respect each other. ( culture, customs, behavior, hobby, career, relatives) get marital therapy before you get to the point where you hate each other. have children only when you believe you will stay together for the next eighteen years Continue reading Top ten things you can do to make your marriage work